This blog explores the physical, mental and spiritual aspects of total health with some children's stories thrown in to break the intensity.

Fermenting vegetables


My daughter in law, Jennifer McLaughlin, nutritionist, and font of practical information taught me how to do this.  Our grandchildren, who are 4 and 6 years old, can do a decent job of fermenting with a little help.

Fermenting veggies is a great way to get probiotics into your body.  Many people also love their taste.  Fermenting is easier than canning and probably preserves without destroying as much nutritionally as canning does.  It is said to actually increase the bioavailability of minerals.  It actually increases the amount of digestive enzymes, and certainly adds to the good bacteria in your gut to aid in digestion and heal gut problems.  It can help to correct dysbiosis, an overgrowth of bad bacteria in the gut.

Thus far I have tried onions, onions with herbs, salsa (tomatoes, onion, peppers, cilantro), peppers, cucumbers, green beans, asparagus, cauliflower, broccoli, carrots, cabbage (red and green), and sweet potatoes plus various combinations of the same list.  i have added various herbs, onions, and garlic for seasoning.  The only ones which I have not liked were the ones that I added jalapenos to.  But, spicy is not really my thing.

Here are the simple directions:

Wash your hands and the quart canning jars and lids thoroughly.  Wide mouth jars are easier to press the veggies down into the jars so they are preferable.  Wash the veggies you intend to ferment very well.  Cut out all bad spots.

Cut into bite size pieces then fill the canning jar, pushing the veggies down to press out any air spaces.  Fill the jar to below the lip with the cut up vegetables.

In another jar add 3 tablespoons of real salt ( salt with other minerals in it) or you can use any salt if you prefer.  Mix well with 1 quart of dechlorinated water (water that has been sitting out for 24 hours or has been filtered to get the chorine out).  If you use chlorinated water it kills the good bacteria which you are trying to grow to preserve the vegetables.

Add the salt water to the vegetables in the jar to the level that they are all covered but the water remains just below the neck of the jar.  Wipe the top of the jar with a paper towel and put a metal canning lid on tightly.

Place the jar in a warm but not hot space which is not in direct sunlight.  Let this ferment for 3 to 5 days to the taste that you prefer.  The longer it ferments, the more acid it becomes.  If the lid starts to get extremely bowed, you may burp it.  I recommend doing this over the sink as it bubbles up.  Don’t do this often as it slows the fermenting process.  When the ferment reaches the point that you like then store it in the frig and eat it.  The ferments must be stored in a very cool space.

Start slowly in eating these as your body needs to adapt to it.  You may get diarrhea otherwise.  I have also noticed that if I eat a lot of fermented veggies, I get very vivid and sometimes unpleasant dreams.  So let your body adjust gradually.  Good health!

Small Miracle 2


Early in my freshman year in college, I met a young man named Lee.  Meeting him had an impact on me even though I was in a serious relationship with someone else.  The night after I met him, I dreamed of my wedding to him.  This was the first of my night time dreams that later came to pass.  Some time after this, my relationship with the other young man ended. Eventually, Lee and I dated then married. On our wedding day, I was twenty and he was twenty one (It was his birthday).  That was nearly 39 years ago.  I consider finding Lee to be another miracle. Lee is my best gift from God next to Jesus.


For some time, I have wanted to write letters of thanksgiving to God for the everyday miracles in my life.  Perhaps He has been acknowledged and thanked, but I want these stories front and center as He is an amazing God.

One of the earliest small miracles happened when I was in 3rd grade.  Being somewhat of a tomboy and very active, I always had various scrapes, cuts, and bruises.  These generally made little impact on me, and I really took no notice.

My teacher happened to see that I had a red line running from my hand almost to my shoulder.  I had gotten a hawthorn thorn imbedded in my left hand and had gotten blood poisoning.  After the doctor took out the thorn and instructed me to soak my hand in Epsom salt solution, the line receded in 3 to 4 days back to normal.

I came to understand later, that had that red line reached the few more inches to my heart, I would have died.  Looking back, I consider it to be God’s intervention and give thanks for his tender mercies.


1 small quartered seeded apple (not peeled)

1 small slice of lemon seeded and peeled

10 to 15 purple seedless grapes

1/2 celery stick–may leave leaves on

1/2 cup ice

1/2 cup water

2 tablespoons of ground flaxseed

Wash all ingredients thoroughly.  Use organic if possible.  Blend in Blendtec on smoothie setting.  Makes 1 to 2 smoothies. Enjoy!


Over a month ago, I hurt my back–specifically my sacro-iliac joint. God quickly healed it with some help from chiropractic. However, the aftermath was that I had digestive problems.

Previously this system was working really well, but function came almost to a standstill. In the time after the back injury, I had some scheduled trips, one to WV and one to Israel. I managed to get by, but had over a month of misery.

One sidebar was that while in Israel a virus went through our group.  It gave people diarrhea and some also had vomiting.  My turn came in the middle of a ceremony we attended for the opening of a new building in a Bible college.  I had intense pain but none of the other symptoms.  The pain was so severe that my husband was trying desperately to find a solution.  Go to a hospital?  Cut the trip short and go home?

I asked a great woman of great faith to pray for me, and she did right there and right then.  Immediately, I felt completely well and participated in our last big celebration dinner with no problems.  She also prayed that God would get to the underlying spiritual issues related to my ongoing digestive system lack of function.

Two things on the Israel trip seemed to be tied in as God began to show the spiritual problem that was underlying my physical symptoms.  The first struck me in a talk that our pastor gave at Mt. Carmel.  He talked of Elijah and his battle with the prophets of Baal.  He spoke of the rain and dew in Israel being stopped for over 3 years.  That drought struck me as being a picture of me, but I did not understand fully until later when I was prayed for at home.  The second thing that hit me was the stones in Israel.  For the most part, Israel is a very rocky country and there are stones at most of the significant sites of Jesus’s life.  There is a stone you can touch where he was born, one where he was laid out after the crucifixion, where he was buried etc.  Plus most buildings are built from stone.  At the later prayer time, I understood more fully how stones tied in with my spiritual issues.

After the Israel trip, I saw a gastroenterologist who immediately did some tests. These showed no reason for the dysfunction, yet nothing changed for the better.

Finally, I asked a friend with the gift of healing and a ministry of Holy Spirit-led prayer to pray for me (along with the help of my best friend). She started the prayer time by seeing me in the Spirit as a little girl trying and trying to make the bow on a present look exactly perfect. I could not make it good enough no matter how hard I tried. This picture seemed to be tied into my family history of performance orientation, possibly an ongoing family issue for multiple generations.

As she prayed, she also saw a desert parched of water being turned into a lush garden in me. (This completed the picture of the drought in Elijah’s time which I knew was somehow related to my situation.) She then prayed for the muscles to relax in and around my low back.

After her prayer time, I prayed in repentance for my performance mindset and my continuing concern for what other people think as opposed to having the overriding goal of pleasing God alone.

After my praying friend saw the desert and lush garden picture, I saw a totally different one. I saw a massive stone which was my foundation–Jesus Christ. I had built my house of character upon that stone, but through my effort. I had determined to be kind, patient, considerate, gentle, caring, sensitive, persistent, loving of God and others, etc, etc. Of course these efforts did not work. My house of character, while built upon the foundation of Jesus was not sound. It was built by my work and not by Godʼs leading.

In my spirit, I could see God sweep his arm across and completely wipe the foundation clear. My old house of character was completely gone.

Patching up my house of character was not an option. My life must based upon hearing and obeying, not upon striving.

Of course, that night my body functions returned to normal after about 40 days of drought. What a wonderful thing!

This excerpt from Oswald Chambersʼ was in my daily email on the day of the prayer time. It seemed so applicable.

“The Christian life is stamped by ‘moral spontaneous originality,’ consequently the disciple is open to the same charge that Jesus Christ was, viz., that of inconsistency. But Jesus Christ was always consistent to God, and the Christian must be consistent to the life of the Son of God in him, not consistent to hard and fast creeds. Men pour them selves into creeds, and God has to blast them out of their prejudices before they can become devoted to Jesus Christ.”

As Christians, we are not following a dead manʼs creed, but we are including a living and interactive God into our lives. We cannot make choices and decide our characters and then ask God to bless that.

As a Christian, my house of character must be built out of living stones. My character needs to be built based upon consultation with God (prayer without ceasing), deliberate listening, then simply obeying. This may look inconsistent and discordant with the world, yet we are not called to imitate Christ but to be HIS workmanship.

Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain” Psalm 127:1

So here I am trusting the Lord to rebuild my house of character, but this time with living stones that he can rearrange and use as needed. This house may not be as I envisioned, but I am choosing to listen to and trust the architect of my faith. Then, not only am I being built with living stones but also I become an effective part of the living stone church that God has been building and using for ages past and ages yet to come.


I was just around 2 remarkable children–a big sister and little brother. The older sister is insatiable in seeking knowledge.  Her unending “Tell me a story” continued until I found that I was digging deep into my very soul to satisfy her.  As I shared stories from the family or experiences, I could see her eyes become dreamy as she pictured the story in her mind.  In this exchange, she learned so much about me, much more than anyone else has ever really wanted to know.  And I learned about her.  As she asked questions, I learned what really piqued her interest.  I could see how she compared things to her own life by her comments.  We found our common interests and passions.  What I learned from this remarkable little girl was: how to listen– really listen, how to get to know someone for whom they really are, and how to find the stories in life.  I have supreme confidence that she will keep asking, seeking, and knocking at doors until she finds the big story of her own life.

Now to the lesson from the little brother.  He idolizes his sister.  He follows her like a puppy dog.  He imitates her every move.  If you comment on that fact, he is proud and not embarrassed because he “woves” (loves) her.  I see this as the ultimate in loving.

The big sister is kind to him and enjoys his company (usually).  If he does something cute and babyish, she smiles a tolerant and adoring secret smile like she is sharing his cuteness with you. She is not often mean or intolerant.  So she is a good choice for him to imitate.

Ultimately, we all must pick role models for our lives.  Every person will have some bad qualities in with the good, yet, we can find good, if not perfect, role models.  And of course there is the best role model of all time.  But we must each find our own way into his footsteps.


Ingredients:

2 oranges peeled and cut in halves

8 0unces of filtered water  (less for sweeter juice, more for more diluted juice or you can add 1/2 ice and 1/2 water for a smoothie)

Put ingredients into Blendtec.  Run on whole juice setting for the whole cycle.  You will have frothy orange juice that is delicious and includes all of the fiber.  Enjoy this delicious treat.

I have discovered that whole juices are much better for me because the fiber mitigates the load on the pancreas and the rise and bottoming out of my blood sugar responses.


Combine in Blendtec the following ingredients:

1 cup spinach

1 lime–cut in thirds

1 peeled kiwi–halved

1 peeled orange–cut in quarters

2 tablespoons milled flaxseeds (or whole if you have a Blendtec)

1/2 cup ice

Fill with water after adding other ingredients to 16 ounce line.

 

Process until smooth.  Enjoy.


The following talk was given to a MOPS group on 4/25/12 by Kathy McLaughlin.  Please comment or ask questions under “comments”.

My background includes practice as a physical therapist, as an organic gardener selling produce in a coop, a raw goat milk farmer selling jugs of raw milk from our farm, and a nutrition junkie.  I love learning about nutrition.  I also have a daughter in law who is a nutritionist who delights in teaching me.  My other training which you may see hints of is in prayer ministry.  I have been through years of training in helping people this way.

My interest in healthy diets ramped up drastically about 5 years ago when I first was diagnosed with breast cancer.  A second cancer then a diagnosis of Non Hodgkins lymphoma kept me on the fast track to learning how to care better for my body.  I generally restrain myself in talking about these thing until I see that someone is interested.  It is my hope, that you are interested in getting your little people off to a healthy start in good body maintenance.

Before I start, lets just get it out there that I am not perfect in keeping sugar completely out of my diet.  This purpose of this talk is not to add another thing into your life to feel guilty about.  It is really to help you think outside the box with your family’s diet.

Another important point to emphasize, right off the bat, is that diet is not our healer–God is.  The Lord designed our bodies to self repair. He also gave us the proper fuel for our bodies–food in its purest and least adulterated state.

As Hippocrates, the founder of modern medicine, said, “Let food be your medicine…”  Food is not only a perfectly designed fuel, it is also an aid to recovery when the body is functioning at less than optimal.  Yet, in its most manipulated forms, food can become a deterrent instead of an aid to health.  Specifically, processed sugar in its many forms can be damaging to our bodies.  I have heard it said that sugar is more addictive than cocaine.  I don’t know if I believe that, however, I do believe that it is extremely addictive. Think yourself of the bad habit of sweets.  You eat some then that craving keeps persisting.  The only thing to do about it in my experience is to keep those foods away from me.  After about 2 weeks the craving grows less.

I want to tell 2 amazing stories of personal acquaintances.  The first was of my great uncle.  At almost 90, his much younger wife talked him into cutting all added sugar out of his diet.  He was in a wheelchair, unable to walk or do much self care.  After stopping sugar, he walked again and regained much function.  Both he and his wife gave credit to the change in diet as well as to God’s mercy.

The second tale is of a friend of mine who fell on ice a few years back.  She was badly hurt, unable to walk or do anything without major pain.  She started seeing a chiropractor.  She says the the most important thing he did for her was to educate her about sugar.  She stopped sugar and has a new beauty, vitality and no pain.  Everyone notices the change in her–it is quite dramatic.

In the past 20 years, average sugar consumption has increased from 26 pounds per person to 135 pounds.  Along with that increase, diseases which were rare have become common place like heart disease, diabetes, cancer,arthritis as well as many other degenerative diseases.  Is there possibly a connection to proliferation of these diseases and our dramatic increase in sugar consumption?

What is it about sugar that is so bad for us when glucose provides energy for the body?  Isn’t sugar just fancy glucose–aren’t all sugars eventually broken down into glucose which our body needs?    Let’s have a “Sugar 101” class going back to the basics.

There are 3 categories to what we eat in the way of plant and animal based foods–fats, proteins, and carbohydrates.  Fats become fatty acids after the digestive process; proteins are broken down into amino acids; and carbs are turned into glucose.  In the metabolization of all 3 categories of food, energy is produced for the body.

Foods with carbohydrates have been categorized by glycemic index and glycemic load.  GI measures the increase in blood sugar from 50g of carbohydrates from that food. For example, 50g of carbohydrates from carrots is about a pound of carrots. A snickers bar is 63 g of carbs.  GL takes into account the serving size and therefore the fat and protein in the food as well. It is a much better predictor of blood sugar response. High GL is >=20, Medium is between 11 to 19, Low is <=10. The lower the glycemic index or load–the longer it takes the body to break down that food into glucose.  Conversely, a food with a high glycemic index is quickly turned into glucose.

Straight glucose is a value of 100. Table sugar is sucrose, a simple sugar easily and quickly converted to glucose, so it is relatively high in glycemic index about 64. In basic terms, simple sugars and carbs like processed sugar and grains are very high on the glycemic index.  If you add fiber to those sugars, the glycemic index number goes down.  Add proteins and fats and it goes down even more.  The GL would reflect all of these factors.

Vegetables and fruits are generally low, processed grains and cereals are generally high, whole grains are generally low or medium. There are notable exceptions to these statements.  Potatoes, corn, and  parsnips are high.  Bananas and some sweeter fruits are medium.  This website will give you both the GI and the GL values: http://www.glycemicindex.com/foodSearch.php

Potato  104      36.4

Glucose  100

Parsnips  97 11.6

White bread 70 8.4

Wheat bread 70 7.7

Sweet potato 51 12.4

Banana  51 12.2

Dairy 40-50 6 -10

Apple 39 6.2

Spinach, Broccoli, Green beans, Cabbage, Cauliflower

0-6 0-6

Meats and most nuts 0 except cashews

High glycemic foods encompass simple sugars including honey, maple syrup, fructose, table sugar, agave sweetener, and any number of sugars ending in “ose” (like maltose, dextrose, etc.)  Here is a partial list of sugar in its many disguises.  You are probably  a label reader already.  Add these words to your label reading vocabulary.  High fructose foods like high fructose corn syrup are even more damaging because fructose is processed in the liver and excesses are converted to triglycerides.

Agave Nectar

Barley Malt Syrup

Corn sweetener

Corn syrup, or corn syrup solids

Dehydrated Cane Juice

Dextrin

Dextrose

Fructose

Fruit juice concentrate

Glucose

High-fructose corn syrup

Honey

Invert sugar

Lactose

Maltodextrin

Malt syrup

Maltose

Maple syrup

Molasses

Raw sugar

Rice Syrup

Saccharose

Sorghum or sorghum syrup

Sucrose

Syrup

Treacle

Turbinado Sugar

Xylose

Sugar acts differently within a food like a fruit or vegetable. God made fruits and veggies with the right amount of fiber so that when the bonds of the molecules are broken down into their components, the fiber in the food makes the breaking down process take longer.  Then the glucose is released into the body more gradually.  The load on the pancreas is less.  The body does not have the highs and lows like it does with simple sugars.

What does this mean in practical terms?  We have all felt sugar highs and the aftermath of extreme fatigue which follows.  We have seen kids act out when they have overloaded on candy.  We know how miserable we feel when we have gorged on sweets.  Does sugar do more serious harm than these obvious effects?   ( Draw graph )

Here is an example of one of our family’s early experiences related to sugar.  Our oldest son had a genetic weakness for chocolate inherited from his mom.  As a young boy visiting his granddad, he was indulged in this weakness.  Every visit, his grandpa would make him fudge.  Inevitably a horrible nosebleed would immediately follow.  We finally made the connection between high sugar foods and his nosebleeds.

When there are large amounts of sugar in the blood, it results in what is called glycation.  The glucose end products attach to proteins.  Glycation damages whatever it attaches to.  This may be blood vessels or organs.  It can do much damage by damaging the blood supply to organs like the kidneys or even to the eyes.  It hastens aging and causes many serious problems.  We all need to know that glycation causes our skin to sag faster.  It causes the collagen fibers to become less elastic, thereby causing faster aging.

Definitively these following disorders are caused or worsened by high sugar diets:

Yeast infections, fungal infections, gut dysbiosis (imbalance of the good and bad flora or microorganisms living in the gut), diabetes, insulin resistance, obesity and obesity related diseases.

Here are some of the diseases to which sugar-laden foods almost certainly contribute:

Arthritis, inflammatory diseases, degenerative diseases, cancer, behavioral disorders, and gut disorders

How is this possible?

Lets start with proven facts then meander into theory.  In simple terms, sugar feeds yeast and fungi.  We have all heard of candida albicans.   That is the typical yeast infection which many women get vaginally.  It is also the cause of “thrush” which many babies get in their mouths and throats.  Candida and many other harmful organisms are fed by sugar-rich foods.  These bad bacteria overrun the organisms meant to inhabit the gut which aid in the digestion and break-down process.  The resulting imbalance is called dysbiosis.

It could be said good health starts in the gut.  The opposite is also true.  When dysbiosis occurs it leads to a domino effect.  When there is a predominance of bad microbes in the gut, bad health reigns.

Now we advance into theory territory–leaky gut syndrome.  The basis for this theory is the idea that damage to the intestines causes the permeability to increase because the openings that let the molecules move in and out become enlarged.

This allows larger molecules of incompletely digested food to move out as well as toxins and bacteria which should remain in or pass through as waste.  This is presumed to be the basis of many problems, such as allergies or autoimmune problems.

The solution for this problem is to repopulate the gut with good bacteria to create a healthy balance, to stop feeding the bad microorganisms, and to include lots of fiber in the diet.  A healing diet for the gut is a diet low in sugar, grains, processed food and very high in veggies and somewhat less in fruits.  Dairy and meat should be organic.

So, I am not going to tell you all of this without giving help in how to change your family’s diet.

Here are some great and easy foods to substitute for the snacks of processed or high sugar foods.

Cut up sweet potatoes

Apple slices with peanut or almond butter

Celery with peanut or almond butter

Red pepper slices (Any of these veggies are great with hummus)

Carrots

Sugar snap peas

Green beans

Raw asparagus shoots

Raw broccoli or cauliflower pieces

Flaxseed soda bread

Raw almonds

Raw pecans

Banana-peanut butter-egg pancakes

We had samples of some of these foods for our breakfast.  These are not typical breakfast foods so I really stretched you in your eating this morning.  When you eat these foods, savor the flavors and the sweetness.  If you let yourself, you can change your family’s palate to appreciate these.

The name of a great cookbook to cook in a low glycemic fashion is Internal Bliss.  The author never gives her name.  I have only found this cookbook online.  It is associated with the GAPS diet

Also a great breakfast is stir fried veggies with an egg on top.  It gives your kids nutrition and energy.  Another good one is Peanut Butter Banana Pancakes (with no grain).  Or try a nutrition packed smoothie.  There are recipes on my website–  healingdiscoveries.com

These are all easy to have ready in the frig or to toss in a bag to take with you for on-the- go snacks.

This is the key to changing your family’s diet.  Have satisfying and quickly available foods and healthy snacks available all the time.  And do not have processed, sugar filled foods anywhere in the house.

When we are dying for a sweet snack, apples and peanut butter usually do the trick, but if not then a peanut butter banana smoothie will help.

Peanut Butter Banana Smoothie Recipe

1 banana                     

2 tablespoons organic no additives peanut butter

1 cup almond milk        

1/2 cup ice

Blend in blender until smooth 

We will make and have a sample of this today.

Here are four principles to finish up with for trying to eat well.  If it gets near you it will get in you.  So only bring healthy good foods into your home.

The second thing which is totally unrelated to sugar but related to the gift that I have for you is: If it gets on you, it gets in you.  (Give out gift of natural deodorant made from baking soda, arrowroot powder and cornstarch.)

And thirdly to keep this all in perspective, self control is a very good thing on cleaning up our diet, but ultimately it is most important cooperate with God to let him clean our hearts up.  Mat 15:10 – 11 What goes into someone’s mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them.  While we want to treat our bodies as God’s temples, ultimately it is our hearts that are most important.

The fourth principle is that just as food is medicine, the Bible is even more so.  We can devour the Bible as our healing medicine.  Prov 4:20-22 My child, pay attention to what I say.  Listen carefully to my words.  Don’t lose sight of them.  Let them penetrate deep into your heart, for they bring life to those who find them, and healing to their whole body.

I have no doubt of this truth whatsoever.  God has restored me with his word and his touch.

Father God,

Please help us in our quest to treat our bodies as your temples doing proper temple maintenance.  However, please go much deeper to our hearts and show us how to let you fill our hearts with your Holy Spirit so much that we clearly hear and obey you.  Let your word be our sustaining and healing food.  Help us to exercise wisdom and self control regarding our regular food.  Above all please let seeking to hear and follow you be our highest priority.

In Jesus name

Amen

 


The following was written by my husband as a devotion for an elders meeting.  Enjoy!

 

Some Thoughts on Marriage and the Church

 

 

We (Kathy and I) have just had the privilege of completing another series of lessons on marriage relationships using the Alpha Marriage Course. It was a great time to get to know many couples in the church and from this area but equally it was once again an opportunity for us to grow in our relationship as a couple. Just the very act of doing this course together required that we coordinate the plans, delegate responsibilities and discuss afterwards the teachings and how they impacted what our marriage is and can become.  Once again we lived in the first person what God had designed a marriage to be, the union of two people working in a common cause to bring Him greater glory with the net gain that we too are emboldened to seek more ways that we can bring God to the community. 

 

After the dust cleared from the task of teaching this course we had the time to unpack some of the events in the course and reflect on what we may build on as we seek more tools and times for reaching the body so they are reinforced in their commitment and covenant of marriage. 

 

What did we see and hear?

  1. Couples desperately need other couples to bounce their ideas and desires against. At the dinner tables prior to the formal presentation of the class we saw and heard couples speaking to everything from childcare to college tuition and from the sense of aloneness as they ground through their weeks to the joy they gain when they are in a community that allows them to speak to others with similar needs. 

I’m reminded of Hebrews 10:24-25 which counsels us to “consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another and all the more as you see the day approaching.”

 

  1. As the teachings were progressing we repeatedly were pulled aside and asked for prayer and counsel for situations that ran through the full spectrum of concerns, from forgotten birthdays to indebtedness to infidelities. It taxed our abilities to provide adequate response but also encouraged us to seek the counsel of others more knowledgeable in various situations. Throughout the course and even today when we talk to couples we endeavor to make every effort to do what leads to peace and mutual edification  (Romans 14:19) for the benefit of the couple wanting assistance. 

 

  1. We also repeatedly see that the attack on marriages is relentless.  The busyness and misplaced priorities of our lives results in a growing separateness that plays exactly into the plans of the evil one. 

 

We will ask couples “What are you feeding in your marriage? Are you making a conscientious effort to feed your love, and commitment to your spouse, or are you feeding your doubts, dissatisfaction and self-absorption? If you don’t make a point of feeding your love and commitment, then it’s easy for doubts and dissatisfaction to slide into your way of perceiving your spouse without even realizing it.”

 

Sheldon Vanauken, who wrote the book “A Severe Mercy”, which published for the public’s benefit many private letters between C.S. Lewis and himself once observed, ““The killer of love is creeping separateness. It’s taking love for granted, especially after marriage. It’s ceasing to do things together— finding separate interests. It’s ‘we’ turning into ‘I.’ The modern world, especially in the cities favors it with the man going off to his office; and the woman staying home with the children — or perhaps having a different job. The failure of love might seem to be caused by hate or boredom or unfaithfulness with a lover; but those were results. First came the creeping separateness: the failure behind the failure.” 

 

Now you may ask why am I bringing these observations to you when my charge for tonight was to bring you a devotional. I am doing it because I believe we, as the leadership of this community of believers, need to be especially mindful of the delicate fabric that is woven into a happy marriage. 

 

I know that as goes marriage so goes the church because it is this foundation that teaches us about the unique union of a man and a woman that is a glimpse of Christ in his relationship to the church.  Every moment of every day as we live out the example of our lives as elders we need to remind ourselves that we are counsel to couples, catalysts for Christ-like change and teachers of the unique importance of the person called to be in mutual benefit with their mate so they can be a living testimony to God. We must devote ourselves to being the model of what Christ has called us to be, good husbands dedicated to our wives. We need to model the church through our marriages.

 

Consider these responsibilities as we pray:

 

Father, as we endeavor to find the paths that you have set down for this church to follow in being a light to this community remind us that it is our marriages and how we strengthen them and model them that speaks loudly to the lost and hurting world. Help us to do all we can to build up marriage, through teaching, right leading and example so that all may know that love is an act of will, both in intention and in action. Remind us constantly of the words of the apostle John, “Let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth” (1John 3:18).

 

In Jesus Name,

Amen


 I wrote this following article for a friend to use in her Avon Walk fund raising blog site.

I was diagnosed with breast cancer the first time over 5 years ago.  A second cancer popped up in a different place in my breast during that first year as well as a lymphatic cancer in 7 places–follicular lymphoma.  Approximately 11 surgeries (including double mastectomies, reconstruction and related surgeries), radiation and a gazillion medical visits ensued.  Currently, I am down to the trickle of bi-yearly check ups.  ( HIgh five! )

This whole experience changed my life radically.  As a Christian, I see things through the lens of Christ’s influence.  Yet, in no way do I believe that God caused all of this.  My life style habits, personal and corporate sin, or numerous other things may have been contributory.  Yet, I can truly say I am thankful for where I am as a result of this journey.  I thank God in the midst of it all and in some ways even for the occurrence of the cancers.

The last 2 scans showed that the follicular cancer is shrinking.  The breast cancer has not reared its ugly head again.  Thanks be to God!

I believe God is healing me and I expect the next scan to continue the trend or to show the cancer is gone completely.  The shrinking is not because of treatment–I have had no treatment for the lymphoma.  It is by God’s hand.

However, whatever the outcome, here are the life-changing things I learned in this journey.  Primarily, God loves me so much!  Me!  Really!  God was with me every step of the way through everything, and I truly now believe in my heart the words, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Furthermore, I learned that I am such a sinner.  My perception of myself as a “good girl with a few sins” was a lie from hell.  God played videos in my head of my failures in loving Him and others one by one as I went through the cancer adventure.  It pushed me to repent, make amends as possible, and to view myself and others so differently from my previous self-righteous viewpoint.  Never again will I look down on someone–we are all in one boat.  Sinners one and all!

Lastly, God has built my faith.  I don’t think I had more than a molecule of faith previous to all of this, but I think he has increased my faith to mustard seed size.  Now, I cannot wait to see what mountains he is going to move with that faith!  Yay God!

To see more discoveries from this journey see my blog–

http://healingdiscoveries.com/



There is no doubt that Christians suffer.  And there is no doubt that suffering can bring great growth and life change.  Yet, is continued sickness God‘s will for Christians?  Is there a possibility that God wants us to be free from sin and disease and that this freedom comes through Jesus?

So many times we accept suffering as being from God’s hand, forgetting that we live in enemy occupied territory.  Do we passively accept illness and disease as part of the hardship that God said we would suffer when often it is something that we should be fighting with faith, spiritual warfare, communal prayer in one accord and using the authority of a believer?

It is true that there are instances in the Old Testament when God brought plagues or suffering in response to disobedience.  It is further correct that Jesus willingly suffered on the cross and told us that it would not be different for his followers.  (Rom 8:16-17, 1 Pet 2:21) It is accurate that there are many Christian martyrs.  Moreover, it is apparent that God seemed to prescribe suffering for specific purposes.  One example of this was 2 Cor 12:7-10,Paul’s thorn in the flesh.  It’s purpose was to keep him from growing prideful (the thorn may or may not have been a physical ailment–we do not know.  Another was Job’s suffering to show Satan that Job was faithful and loyal to God even in the midst of pain and loss.

I have pondered and studied for some time on the question of “Is it God’s will to heal His children?”  It seemed like God brought me an answer to this question like a light bulb turning on in my brain–sin and disease are a package deal.

We already know these are linked in consequences.  Sin leads to disease.   The link is sometimes obvious, like worry causing ulcers.  Gluttony can contribute to obesity and diabetes.   Drinking alcohol excessively can bring about liver disease.

Alternatively, sometimes disease comes as a response to corporate sin.  Water or soil pollution can lead to cancer.  Cultural eating habits can lead to poor health.

Yet, every time someone came to or was brought to Jesus in the Bible, that person was healed.  There are no exceptions listed  in the Bible during Jesus’ time here on earth.  Is this still true?  When people approach Jesus in faith or are brought in intercession, is it still his will to heal?

There are many apparent factors affecting healing.  Does the sick person have faith that Jesus will heal him?  Does the person praying in intercession have faith?  Does the church community have faith?  Is there a sin issue which is contributing to the disease?  Is the ill person’s lifestyle such, that should that person be healed they would quickly return to illness?  These are just a few obvious possible blocks to healing.  Who knows how many other hidden influences which may affect it?  (And, when I speak of healing, I am not ruling out healing as assisted by medical intervention.  To me, that is also from the hand of God, just as surely as miraculous healing.)

If God is still healing in present day, then why do we see his people staying sick in the midst of prayer?  Why do we see so few miracles?  Other than the possible blocks to healing stated in the last paragraph, I have only one answer to this question.  As we have seen, sin and disease are linked.

Since Jesus died on the cross to destroy our sin, then why are all Christians still chained in sin when freedom is possible through Christ?  As Christians we may have increasing levels of freedom as we grow in Jesus, but never are we completely sin-free this side of heaven.  Yet, increasing deliverance from sin is possible and we can grow in character to be more like Jesus.   This is true of disease also.  We live in fallen territory which disease inhabits.  Yet all of our sin and diseases are upon the cross–crucified with Christ.  It is a done deal, but we must appropriate what Jesus did into our lives.  (Isaiah 53:4)

How can we become more available for God to use as healing agents gifted with this special gift of the spirit?  How can our churches stand together to pray powerful corporate prayers for the sick and hurting?

We are to be warriors in prayer.  Warriors are trained in battle skills.  Let us become proficient in our spiritual warfare.

We can grow in faith.  We can learn to pray in one accord.  We can learn to be mighty in doing as Jesus instructed.  We can learn not to pray double-minded prayers of unbelief.  We can grow in purity so that God is able to hear our prayers.  We can learn to pray in the authority of the believer in the name of Jesus.  We can become intercessors who pray empowered by love that is given from Jesus ‘ hand by following his voice.  We can learn to  prayer without ceasing, as our lives begin to turn into living prayers.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


Feeding Your Child Sugar Can Be a Highly Addictive Habit

American children are consuming about ten times as much sugar as they were a century ago, especially in the form of fructose (primarily in the form of high fructose corn syrup). Fructose is the average American‘s largest source of calories. This comes as no surprise, as it’s highly addictive. The prevalence of fructose in the Western diet is a very significant factor driving today’s obesity epidemic.

Much of the fructose in processed foods and beverages is in the form of high fructose corn syrup (HFCS).

You’ll find high fructose corn syrup in an alarming number of everyday products—bread, salad dressing, pasta sauce, infant formula, and nearly all processed foods. In these highly concentrated, highly refined forms, fructose can have some very serious metabolic effects that wreak havoc on your body and make it difficult to escape the addictive cycle. Because it’s so energy-dense, putting HFCS in your body is like putting jet fuel into an automobile engine—you’ll burn it out.

When you consume something so high in sugar, your pancreas must secrete large amounts of insulin to bring down your bloodsugar level. And all of that sugar is turned into fat so it can be stored. Insulin is in fact a fat-producing hormone. But the problems from sugar don’t stop there.

 

Addictive and Toxic: Found in Bread, Pasta Sauce and Salad Dressing   Addictive and Toxic: Found in Bread, Pasta Sauce and Salad Dressing

Sugar is a drug. It causes a beta-endorphin rush in your brain, stimulating the production of morphine-like chemicals. When you’re feeling down or under stress, it’s natural to want to eat foods that lift your mood. Sugar fits the bill as a comfort food,” given its morphine-like physiological effects. And like any drug, your body can become habituated, meaning you will require more sugar over time to get the same sugar high.

Sugar is actually is similar to cocaine in many respects.

Both are highly refined, chemically manipulated agents that are derived from natural, harmless plants—it’s the extremely concentrated forms that are dangerous and addictive to your body. Cocaine is made from coca leaves, which are not in and of themselves harmful and have been used nutritionally for hundreds of years in South Americai. If you want to be healthy, you MUST take control of your sugar intake so that it doesn’t take control over you.

Repentance


 

Lest my body should make me take another line, I am constantly watching so
that I may bring it into subjection and keep it under.” (1 Cor.
9:27.)

When we become Christians, the impact of Jesus in our life  changes our direction 180 degrees. We are heading our own way which is towards hell.  When we hear the good news, that Jesus died for our sins so that we can have life with God eternally should we choose to accept it, we repent from going our way and choose to turn towards God.  Repentance comes from the combination of Greek words meta which means “after” and  the word “noia” which is to think.  In essence repentance means “to think after”.  In other words it is a change in direction of thinking and acting as a result of some influence.  Repentance is a reaction to God’s influence on us.  Biblically it is illustrated as turning towards God.

After we become Christians, we are turned towards God, following the example Jesus laid out for us in the Bible under the direction of the Holy Spirit.  Yet, we all still get off track.  Repentance is still necessary in our lives.  Yet how does this work?  Repentance, as a change in direction from our way to God’s way when we cr choose Christ as savior, is so clearcut.  Thereafter, it can have much less clarity.

I was told that the following story is true– it is an excellent word picture of this concept.

When 2 planes are on the same track, air traffic control uses the lead plane as a guide for the second when the second plane can visually track the lead.  Then air traffic control gives the guidance to the lead plane, thereby cutting their work in half.

The flaw in the system is that the second pilot in line often gets his focus on something else and gets off track.  When air traffic tells him he is off, he will say “No, I can see the plane.”  Air traffic says “Trust us, you need to make an adjustment.”

 

We have an air traffic controller–the Holy Spirit.  We have a lead plane which is Jesus, as made knowable through the Bible.  And we have a home we are heading towards–God the Father.

So easily we can be misled in our focus.  ”Idol” is another word for anything that pulls us off of our path towards God.

Our air traffic controller  (the Holy Spirit) speaks into our hearts when we begin to focus on an idol which leads us astray from God.  He tells us how to adjust our lives.  Getting off-track happens to all of us–something becomes more important ot .  Anything in our lives can become an idol, even good things.  We can even become so focused on staying on the path that we become legalists focusing more on the path than on our lead plane -Jesus.

The only safe thing to focus on is the lead plane (Jesus) and the only safe voice to completely rely on is our air traffic controller ( the Holy Spirit).  Constant appraisal of our focus plus making sure our headphones are tuned to the Holy Spirit is the way to abundant life.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


1 peeled lemon cut in half

1 banana cut in half

4 large strawberries with stems removed

2 cups ice

12 oz water

4 dates

 

Put in water then fruit and dates then ice into Blendtec.  Push smoothie setting.  Pour into large glasses.  This makes 2 large servings of a light refreshing smoothie.


1  1/3 cups flax meal

2/3 cup almond meal

3 teaspoons baking powder

1/2 teaspoon salt

1 teaspoon Italian seasoning

3 eggs

1/2 cup water

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.  Heavily grease a bread pan with lard, ghee or butter.   Mix dry ingredients then blend into wet ones.  Pour into pan.  Bake at 350 for approximately 1 hour until golden brown.  Or bake  at 350 degrees in convection oven for 45 to 50minutes .

You can vary this by substituting other spices like 1 teaspoon of cinnamon for the Italian seasoning or you can add a mashed ripe banana to make hearty but not very sweet banana bread.


Low Carb, low sugar chocolate pudding

1/2 cup cocoa

1/4 cup organic ghee

1/8 cup agave (1/4 cup if you like a sweeter dessert)

1/8 teaspoon salt

1 ripe banana

1 cup cashew butter (I make my own in my Blendtec by blending raw cashews with sesame oil)

1/2 cup almond milk

Optional: Topping of sprinkled chopped cashews and sliced bananas

Blend all ingredients in bowl with mixer.  Put in small glass dessert bowls or stemmed parfait dishes.

Chill and top with with chopped nuts and sliced fruit of your choice.Image

 


Lemon Apple Almond Smoothie

1 cup ice

1 peeled lemon sliced in 2

1 cored apple

1/2 cup raw almonds or pecans

8 soaked dates ( soaked overnight in water in the frig )

Optional:  1 heaping tablespoon of flaxseed and/ or 1/2 cup spinach

Put all ingredients in Blendtec or blender.  Add water to 12 oz mark on Blendtec, Vitamix or blender.  Set on smoothie setting and blend until smooth.  This smoothie is an interesting blend of flavors.  It is thick and creamy.  This is a great breakfast and fills you up until lunchtime.


This is an excellent substitute for ice cream.  It takes care of the craving for  sweet and sticks with you if you use it for a meal.

Ingredients:

1 ripe banana

1 cup ice

2 heaping tablespoons of peanut butter or other nut butter

2 heaping tablespoons of ground flaxseed

almond milk or other milk (rice or organic cow milk) to fill Blendtec to 12 ounce mark

Break banana into 2 inch pieces and add other ingredients then add your choice of milk to the 12 ounces mark.  Push smoothie button or blend until well blended.

Enjoy!


Many romantic poems have come out of my heart for Lee on Valentine’s Day through the years.  This is different.  No gushing romance–just a statement of how a Godly man with a gentle heart and a loving perseverance has changed my life.

If an excellent or virtuous woman’s worth is far above rubies, what is the worth of a Godly man?   I can only address this from my perspective.  A Godly husband is such a treasure that it is second only to the worth of Jesus in my life.  If Jesus is my foundation, the solid rock that I build on, then Lee is the protective walls that add to the foundation.  In him, I find not only comfort and peace, but also truth and accountability.  He reflects God’s light into my world and adds to it’s brightness.

We are growing together and allowing Jesus more and more to knit us together at a deeper level than we could ever do on our own.  Thank you Jesus for such a treasure.

Lord Jesus,

I pray a hedge of protection and the full armor upon Lee.  Lord, please hold him in your righteous right hand.  Use him for your purpose–to glorify your name, Lord, and to draw people to you.  Thank you again.  I am so happy with the mate that you gave to me.  I pray blessings upon all   marriages this Valentine’s Day as well as strength, healing and grace from your hand.

Amen

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